So you find yourself stuck in the friend zone, and want to escape it as soon as possible.
Would you believe me if I told you that one of the main reasons you are in your situation right now is because you simply did not touch her enough?
That’s right. Communication is 55% body language (such as body posture, eye contact, and you guessed it, touching), 38% tone of voice and only 7% words -- do the math, only 7% of what you’re telling people is coming out of your mouth.
Yet, most guys are hesitant to touch a woman they have strong feelings for for several reasons:
1.) You feel that it’s an invasion of her privacy,
2.) You “respect her” and don’t want to treat her as a sexual object,
3.) You’re afraid that she’ll see you as a perverted horndog.
If you are unfortunate enough to believe one of the three things I listed above, I’m telling you right now -- they’re not true! 4 out of 5 men who are stuck in the friend zone would see their situations improve drastically if they just touch women more.
Even just simple touching can amplify the sexual tension between a male and a female if it’s done properly. One caveat, however: there is a right and a wrong way to touch women — do it the wrong way, the only thing you’ll be kissing are your chances goodbye.
It’s not that difficult to touch a woman the right way; just be a little sly and subtle with the way you’re touching her, and you’ll be fine. Let me tell you about three techniques for breaking the touch barrier that you can put to use right away:
1.) Touch her on the arm lightly to get her attention before you start saying something. This can also be done when you’re greeting her whenever you see her. No need to hold the touch for long -- two to three seconds of touch is actually sufficient.
2.) If you’re the teasing kind, give her a playful hug while apologizing for a quip. Putting your arm around her works as well. The effect this has on her is a general feeling of being protected by you -- that helps further your cause and will get her to start seeing you in a more sexual manner.
3.) “Unintentionally” brushing a part of you against hers also works wonders. For example, if you’re sitting together, casually let your leg be in contact with her leg, or your arm with her arm, maybe even your hand against her hand.
It’s important to get her used to the idea of physical contact with you if you’re trying to get out of the friend zone. Be sure to learn the fine art of physical flirting and add it to your arsenal to speed up your way out of the friend zone. Discover more information on the art of touching by reading about the Touch Escalation Ladder at http://www.outofthefriendzone.com today.
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